I thank You Holy Spirit for this eye-opener.
2 Timothy 2:15 “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
To really know and understand Jesus, one has to “study” Him (the word of truth).
Same way, to really know and understand your spouse, you have to “study” your spouse.
Little wonder Eph 5:24-25 correlated the relationship btw man and wife with that of Christ and the Church.
You married an extrovert and is asking someone who married an introvert for marital advice.
How is that advice going to work for you? Instead, just go directly to the Creator of both the extrovert and introvert to ‘table out’ the matter.
God help us.